Greeting cards flatter with quotes of encouragement, but nothing says you love them like personal attention~ B. K. Hendricks
After nearly 38 yrs of marriage, Gene and I have decided to join the trendy date-night jet set. I’m excited. Naturally, I want to do this in godly manner. So I went to the Bible for ideas of what makes a woman attractive to a man and discovered the Song of Solomon chapters four and seven. This is what the wise King Solomon says and how I fashioned my accessories:
- How beautiful your sandaled feet,
- Your graceful legs are like jewels,
- Your navel is a rounded goblet
- Your waist is a mound of wheat encircled by lilies.
- Your neck is like the tower of David, on it hang a thousand shields of warriors.
- You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.
- Your hair is like royal tapestry with a flock of goats running down the mountains.
- Your head crowns you like Mount Carmel.
- Your eyes are doves and the pools of Heshbon
- Your temples like the halves of a pomegranate.
- Your nose is like the tower of Lebanon
- Your lips are like a scarlet ribbon;
- Oh this is embarrassing. I…Well, it is in the Bible, so excuse me…your breasts like clusters of fruit.
- Your teeth are like a flock of sheep just shorn, coming up from the washing. Each has its twin.
- How beautiful you are and how pleasing, my love, with your delights!
What? You’re laughing. It’s because of my lack of lilies, right? Any ideas where I might find some?
Seriously, date night is a great way to cultivate a relationship with people we love, whether it be a spouse, a friend, a child, a parent, or a sibling.
What are some of the things we do on dates?
Eat, movies, bowling, quiet walk, shopping, museums, amusement parks.
What are some of our motives?
To become better acquainted, to rekindle our relationships, to focus on one another’s needs, to share dreams, to break the routine.
There are definite benefits:
Deeper knowledge of and love for one another, refreshes our countenance, relieves emotions, and quickens our spirits.
If we need to have date nights with family members and friends, how much more beneficial would a date night with God be?. What would that look like?
It would be more than our daily devotion time. While Gene and I spend every night together, our evening meals, and hashing over the course of the day, a date night is a special time to concentrate on us—not work, not our children/grandchildren or parents, or even our bad puppy antics—just us. It is a time of intimacy that we share with no one else to remind ourselves how important the other one is to us. And so a date night with God should be the similar in nature. An intimate time that only you and your Lord share. A time that you remind yourself how important Jesus is to you and who you are in Him.
Here is a list of Do’s and Don’ts for your date night with God.
- Do sit quietly and recognize God for who He is
- Do expect God to speak to you. He will if you give Him time to do so.
- Do be open and honest with your emotions
- Do speak to God as you would your best friend. He is
- Do share your dreams
- Don’t bring your Lordy-do list
- Don’t talk to Him about the needs of others. This is your special time to rest in His arms.
- Don’t empty your mind…He never asks this of us and forbids it. He wants you to be fully focused on Him, who He is, and what He does.
- Allow Him to minister to you.
Through Jeremiah, God relates to us His desire to have a close and meaningful relationship with us. He says, “Call on me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.”
You know, the one thing that separates Christianity from all other religions is our relationship with God through Jesus Christ. What are you doing to enhance and to grew that relationship? How about marking a date on your calendar now?
Psalm 33:20-We wait in hope for the LORD; he is our help and our shield. In him our hearts rejoice, for we trust in his holy name. May your unfailing love rest upon us, O LORD, even as we put our hope in you.
Through Bible quotes we find encouragement for the day, but nothing refreshes our spirits like developing an intimate relationship with our Heavenly Father.
See you in a twinkling,
Brenda K. Hendricks
Author/illustrator of the Bumbly Bee books
www.twosmallfish.org
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